You cant judge a book by its cover unless you've walked a day in their shoes. As humans, we tend to get so caught up in our own busy lives that we never take the time to get to know the people around us because you never really know someone unless you live their life. Often times, as humans we tend to hide personal information away from other individuals because it is not anyone's business. Someone may seem like he or she has the most perfect life ever, but how would you know if he or she's currently struggling or not? Thus far in life, Ive been neglected, hurt, and used but no one really knows. Most assume I have the most perfect life, in reality, I am just putting on a facade for the entire world to see. No one would expect for me to grow up without a fatherly figure because of how positive I am about practically everything. I owe it to my mother. She has been through so much in her life, but she always had a positive outlook on life, which is why there is a no symbol in the center of my visual. In my every day life, I try to block out all the negatives that I encounter. Without her molding me to be positive, I would be a negative thinker like the majority of people in this world. As Ive mentioned before, the absence of my father in my life has made a big impact in my life- I never really knew how to love. In high school, the majority of my friends fell in love with the guy they've been dating with for approximately a month or so- I always shut down the idea because I didnt believe in love especially in high school. My senior year, I started dating Randy, who believed in the same values as me. In the beginning of our relationship, both of us totally shut down the idea of love because both of us didnt know what it is and All of my friends had different opinions on my relationship with my boyfriend but I ignored them. As I grew closer to my boyfriend, our views on love changed; we decided to give it a chance. Being in a relationshi