A magical, unexplainable, weird feeling, butterflies in the stomach, and forever. These are some descriptions that we usually think when we hear the word, "love." It is a word with just four letters, but actually has a lot of impressions to each of us. Some equate love with many things existing in our world. Some bound to explain love, when they haven’t got the chance to find and experience it. What does this word really mean? Is there really such thing as, “falling in love,” or, “falling out of love?” Now, let me bring you my own reflection and perspective on what, how and when phenomenology of Love actually comes in. According to Max Scheler, we usually equate love, to what it is not. We equate to respect, benevolence, fellow-feeling, feeling-states, preference, and rejection of values, value apprehension, and even judgment. It is really with man’s human nature to mistake things, to what they are not, and had never been. Love can be associated with many things that we experience and feel, but that doesn’t mean that it is love. Why do we really love? Is it because it’s in our nature to express love, or is love a pre-requisite to humanity? For me, we love not because of any reason, but because when we get the chance to, we simply love them unconditionally. We don’t necessarily love because we want to make them a better person. We do not necessarily love because that person is ought to be like this or like that. Love doesn’t really have these kinds of distinctions. When we are in love, we should not seek to expect higher values, nor change our lover. We should be open and accepting of whatever they are. Loving is not loving when you just love because you share same interest, made sacrifices, or attachment to them. It also in the phenomenon, a so-called love that we experience such heart breaks. After all of those dark times, we learn how to let go, move on, and see yourself experience love all over again. Love do